1 The situation

COVID-19 is raging around the world, and you and your family have been asked (OK, told) to stay home and practice social distancing.

For the most part you are doing so, because you are good people.

But, you wonder—or perhaps, more likely, your kids wonder—is there really so much harm in meeting up with just one friend?

After all, there are all kinds of interactions still happening—between health care workers and patients, people in the food services industries and their customers, and so on. Why does one more matter?

This is a question we’ve heard a lot from our own friends and relatives.

To be clear, when we talk about “meeting up” here, we mean doing so in a way that doesn’t carefully follow all the rules about social distancing. That is, you interact directly or at a distance of less than 6 feet, and/or you share various items between you without rigorous handwashing and disinfecting.

For many of the people asking the question, it seems particularly low-risk to meet up with a friend if neither one has an elderly person in their household, or someone else with a compromised immune system, given how concentrated the mortality is within those populations.

As network epidemiologists, this is our effort to explain why these connections matter more than they may seem.



2 The Good Ol’ Days

Let’s start by imagining back to the good old days before COVID-19. People had lots of daily interactions with others outside their household. Let’s say, for the sake of the example, that a community had 200 households, and the members of a typical household together created 15 regular interactions with other households.

What would that look like? We can visualize a network as a set of nodes and links. Here we’ll make one in which the nodes (green dots) represent households, and the links (gray lines) represent interactions between members of two households.

[For those who want more detail—on terms, explanations and numbers—click on the “What’s Going On”? button in each section; if you just want to compare the pictures, continue on!]

2.1 The Network

The connections among the nodes are so numerous that you can’t even make sense of them—it’s all just a single dense mass of ties. For a new virus that is able to spread across those ties, and to which everyone is susceptible, life is pretty good.



2.2 What’s going on?

The exact numbers we’ve chosen here, like 200 households and 15 ties each, don’t matter much—we just want to imagine a world that is much more connected than it is under social distancing.

Let’s put a few numbers on what you see here for comparison to later scenarios:

  • One important feature of a network that helps us to understand how far something might spread on it is the size of the “largest cluster”. That refers to the largest set of households who are all reachable to one another along any possible path—that is, there is at least one path of any length that connects the two households.

  • In this network, every household can be reached from every other household along at least one path—indeed, along many different ones—so the largest cluster includes all 200 households—that is, 100% of households.

  • Another way of looking at connectivity is to count how many households are reachable along a path of a certain length. You’ve probably heard of the concept of “six degrees of separation”—that’s someone who is your friend’s friend’s friend’s friend’s friend’s friend. We will use that concept here.

  • We’ll look at each household, and measure on average how many other households are within 3 degrees of separation from them, and also how many are within 6 degrees of separation. We use these two numbers because they help us understand how much connectivity there is at different scales.

  • 3 degrees of separation represents someone you might have some sense of—someone in a household connected to a household connected to a household connected to you. Someone at that distance has a pretty good chance of transmitting COVID to you (if they’re infected) or you to them (if you’re infected). And with COVID-19, that could all happen before you have any symptoms and know that you’re infected!

  • And 6 degrees of separation is, of course, a very popular concept, and one that tells you about people who are far enough away on a chain that you probably know nothing about them. And yet there is a chance that they could be the source of a transmission chain that leads to you—or you could be the source of a transmission chain that leads to them.

In this pre-COVID network, the average household has 199 other houses within 3 degrees of separation. That means the entire community! This makes sense, because, with only 200 households, it is a small, and tight-knit place. And of course, that means that all 199 other households are also within 6 degrees of separation.

All of which means that a virus can quickly get around from one household to the whole community!

[Note: The technical term in network theory for a group of connected people is a “component”, but we think the idea of a “cluster” is more familiar to most people].



3 Perfect isolation

Now let’s imagine a world at the other extreme—complete and utter lock-down, where somehow we manage to keep every person in their household and never interact with anyone else. What does that look like?

3.1 The Network

The virus would not be able to spread from household to household at all. Anyone who had it might pass it onto the other members of their household, and each of those people would either die or recover. But the virus could not spread to other households; it would quickly disappear.



3.2 What’s going on?

Here, the largest cluster is of size 1: every household is isolated from every other household. And of course, no household is within either 3 or 6 degrees of separation from any other.

What does that mean? Here the virus would not be able to spread from household to household at all, because there are no links. Anyone who had it might pass it on to the other members of their household, and each of those people would either die or recover. But the virus could not spread to other households; it would quickly disappear.



4 Adding in the essential workers

Of course, that world is impossible. Why? Because some people work in jobs that are essential to maintain the safety, health and well-being of all of us: health care workers, first responders, grocery store workers, etc.

So, let’s imagine what this might do to our network. Let’s say that 1 in every 10 households contains someone with a job where they need to continue some connections. And the average number of connections they have is 4. If we color the households with an essential worker as blue, that gives us…

4.1 The Network


The virus has some opportunity to move around here. This means that some people are going to get infected, and some people are going to die. It’s that simple. But these connections are so essential to the health and well-being of all of us that we as a society are willing to make that trade-off.



4.2 What’s going on?

Even when States order people to “Stay Home”, there are exceptions for essential workers:

  • We need doctors and nurses and EMTs interacting with people.
  • We need all the people that get food to us—growing it, transporting it, selling it—to interact with people.
  • We need the people who manage and maintain our water supply and electricity and gas to keep showing up at work.
  • We need first responders keeping us safe.
  • In big cities, we need transport workers helping all of these people get back and forth between work and home.
  • And so on.

It’s hard to put real numbers on this, but we’ll start with what seems like a reasonable example. Let’s say they use hand washing and some distancing throughout the course of their work day as much as they can, so that they are able to bring their average effective contacts, in terms of reasonable transmission risk, down to 4.

You can see that the virus has some room to move around again—not nearly as much as in the days before social distancing, but still some. And it isn’t just between the households with essential workers and their direct contacts. Sometimes the same household will be connected to two essential workers, creating a longer path. Sometimes two households with essential workers will end up directly connected, putting their two sets of contacts into the same path.

Altogether, we see here a largest cluster of size 37, or 18.5%, of households. (Can you find it?) This is a lot smaller than 100%, but still a fair bit bigger than 0%!

The average household has 3.4 other households within 3 degrees of separation, which represents 1.71% of the community. There is some room for transmission to and from those you may know or know of, but not a lot.

Going out a bit futher, we see the average household has 7.4 of households within 6 degrees of separation, which represents 3.68% of the community. So some additional room to spread the virus well beyond the set of people you know, and vice versa.

Let us be very clear here: some people are going to get infected, and some people are going to die, because of these connections. It’s that simple.

But these connections are so essential that we as a society are willing to make that trade-off. Without them, many more people would die of other basic things besides COVID-19: starvation, freezing, crime, other diseases.

And hopefully, the deaths here won’t be that high. First off, most households are still effectively isolated. And second, those that are connected are only held together by a pretty sparse set of ties, as reflected by the low number of 3-paths. Since transmission is not 100% guaranteed, not all of those in the same cluster as an infected person will become infected. This set of households are all reachable from one another, but it’s not guaranteed that they will all actually be reached by a virus present in that cluster. The fewer the different routes connecting an infected person and a susceptible person, the less likely transmission will reach from one to the other.



5 Visiting just one friend

But, we all know now: strict social distancing starts to get boring after a while. And meeting up to hang out with just one person outside your household—a friend especially—is pretty tempting. And it just doesn’t seem like such a big deal when these other connections are already happening, right?

What happens if an average of two people in each household each decide to maintain an in-person social connection with one person from another household?

5.1 The Network

This network is a lot more connected than the one with just essential workers.

Visiting your friend means that you can reach almost all the other households in your community, and they can reach you! That includes lots of people you don’t even know. The virus can easily travel from them to you and then far beyond to many others. All before you even know you’re infected. It’s a very connected, and effective, network of transmission.

All of that leads to lots of additional deaths, just so people can hang out with one friend.



5.2 What’s going on?

Wow! This network is a lot more connected than the one with just essential workers.

Most households have more than one person in them. In fact, the average household size in the US is 2.6 people. Some households will have none, and some will have 3, but on average it’s 2.6.

Let’s say, then, that you decide to meet up with your friend Sue. But if Sue’s parents are letting her go out, then they probably also need to let her brother Ed go out to meet up with his friend. Note that this is still less than the average household size—not everybody is meeting up with a friend.

What happens when we lay these new connections on top of the essential worker network? A lot more connectivity.

Indeed, the largest cluster contains 181, or 90.5%, of households. That is 4.9 times larger than the essential network. If you are part of that large cluster, then now your household can reach 90.5% of the households in your community, and they can reach you!

And households here have, on average, 28.3 other households within a mere 3 degrees of separation. That’s a huge increase from the 3.4 we saw for the essential worked-only network!

We same effect going out further to 6 degrees of separation, where now households average 134.3 connections, vs. 7.4 for the essential worked-only network. That’s another enormous increase!

In short, we see many many more opportunites to acquire the virus from folks who are both near and far from you in the social network. And equally more oppportunities for you to transmit it on to other folks both near and far.

All just so people can hang out with one friend!



6 Visiting just one friend per household

OK, maybe households with multiple people could all agree that only one person can hang out with one friend. This seems like it should have a lot less connectivity, right?

6.1 The Network

Even with just one person per household getting to see a friend, there’s still a lot more connectivity than in the network with just essential worker ties. And thus, more transmission, and more death.



6.2 What’s going on?

Maybe parents don’t feel like they need friend time as much as their kid does. Of course, if there are multiple kids, that creates a problem—eveyone will want to be the one who gets to hang out with their friend! But let’s say we could make it work.

To examine this, then, we won’t just set an average of one non-essential tie per household; we’ll make every household have exactly one, and no more. Pairs of households become connected, but then they don’t create the same chains that are possible when there are two connections per household. Bu this is still in addition to the essential worker connections. Does this create much less connectivity than the case of two friends per household? Not really.

This still creates a fair amount of connection—the largest cluster contains 128. That’s still the majority of households, at 64%, and 3.5 times larger than the essential network.

And households still have an average of 9.9 households within 3 degrees of separation or 37.6 within 6 degrees. Still much larger than the same numbers for the essential-worker network (3.4 and 7.4, respectively).

That still allows for a lot of extra transmissions and illnesses and hospitalizations and deaths.



7 Lessons learned

Humans are social animals, and reducing connectivity in social networks is hard. And some connections just can’t broken at all if we want to maintain the basic functioning of the systems we need in place to all live. Other connections laid on top of those create more network connectivity than you might think. And thus:

Every additional connection that we can postpone until COVID-19 is under control has the potential to save one or more lives. Yes, every one.

You may never know whether it made a difference, and if it did, exactly whose life was saved.

  • They may be multiple degrees of separation away from you.

  • It could be your friend’s mother’s patient’s father.

  • It could be your sister’s friend’s grandfather’s doctor.

  • It could be the daughter of the grocery store worker where your friend’s parents shop.

Regardless of who it is—waiting a bit to hang out with your friends again is worth it!



8 The fine print for those who are interested

8.1 Model caveats

Now, you may be thinking – isn’t this picture a bit simplistic, in a bunch of ways? Not everybody fits neatly into households; for example, some people live in group quarters like dorms or nursing homes, some kids divide their time between two parental households, and some people are homeless. Surely there is a lot more variation in connections among people than you seem to have here. It seems that, beyond a few simple rules about numbers of connections per household, you are assuming that households pick each other randomly, and surely there is a lot more structure to real networks than that. And surely relationships are actually dynamic—they form and break over time, and not everyone sees the same people from the same households every day.

All of those points are true. But we put them aside and purposefully simplified the world a bit so that we could gain some clear insight about those scenarios first. This is a common approach in scientific investigation in general, and network epidemiology in particular. Once one gains those insights, then one can begin adding in more complexity. Actual models used in the field of network epidemiology typically have a lot more complexity in them than the versions we look at here—but these are great for communicating basic principles to a broad audience.



8.2 Model code

For those of you who find this interesting and have some coding skills in R, we include all of the code for all of these examples for you to look at and play with and change values for or add complexity to, as you wish. Note that these examples use the statnet suite of R packages. Thank you goes to the full statnet development team for all of these. Full citation information is:

Mark S. Handcock, David R. Hunter, Carter T. Butts, Steven M. Goodreau, Pavel N. Krivitsky, Skye Bender-deMoll, and Martina Morris (2019). statnet: Software tools for the Statistical Modeling of Network Data. versin 2019.6. URL http://statnet.org, https://cran.r-project.org/web/packages/statnet/.

## setup
library(statnet)
n <- 200
emptynet <- network.initialize(n, directed=FALSE)

## pre-COVID network
meandeg.precov <- 15
fit.precov <- ergm(emptynet~edges, target.stats=meandeg.precov*n/2)
net.precov <- simulate(fit.precov)
plot(net.precov, vertex.cex=1.5, mode="kamadakawai", vertex.col=3,
     edge.col="gray20")
largcomp.precov <- sum(component.largest(net.precov))

## empty network
plot(emptynet, vertex.cex=1.5, mode="kamadakawai", vertex.col=3,
     edge.col="gray20")

## essential network
meandeg.essl <- 4
prop.essl <- 0.1
essl <- rep(0, n)
essl[sample(1:n, round(prop.essl*n,0), replace=FALSE)] <- 1
set.vertex.attribute(emptynet, 'essl', essl)
fit.essl <- ergm(emptynet~edges+ nodematch("essl", diff=TRUE, levels=1),
              target.stats= c(meandeg.essl*prop.essl*n, 0),
              control=control.ergm(MCMC.burnin = 1e6))
net.essl <- simulate(fit.essl, control = control.simulate(MCMC.burnin = 1e6))
net.essl.el <- as.edgelist(net.essl)
plot(net.essl, vertex.cex=1.5, vertex.col=3+essl, edge.col="gray20")
largcomp.essl <- sum(component.largest(net.essl))
kpath.essl <- sna:::kpath.census(net.essl)$path.count[3,'Agg']/2

## non.essl.net.1
meandeg.non.essl.1 <- 2
fit.non.essl.1 <- ergm(emptynet~edges, target.stats= meandeg.non.essl.1*n/2)
net.non.essl.1 <- simulate(fit.non.essl.1)
net.comb.1 <- net.non.essl.1
net.comb.1 <- add.edges(net.comb.1, tail=net.essl.el[,1], head=net.essl.el[,2])
plot(net.comb.1, vertex.cex=1.5, vertex.col=3+essl, edge.col="gray20")
largcomp.comb.1 <- sum(component.largest(net.comb.1))
kpath.comb.1 <- sna:::kpath.census(net.comb.1)$path.count[3,'Agg']/2

## non.essl.net.2
meandeg.non.essl.2 <- 1
fit.non.essl.2 <- ergm(emptynet~edges+ concurrent, target.stats= c(meandeg.non.essl.2*n/2, 0))
net.non.essl.2 <- simulate(fit.non.essl.2, control=control.simulate(MCMC.burnin=1e8))
net.comb.2 <- net.non.essl.2
net.comb.2 <- add.edges(net.comb.2, tail=net.essl.el[,1], head=net.essl.el[,2])
plot(net.comb.2, vertex.cex=1.5, vertex.col=3+essl, edge.col="gray20")
largcomp.comb.2 <- sum(component.largest(net.comb.2))
kpath.comb.2 <- sna:::kpath.census(net.comb.2)$path.count[3,'Agg']/2

9 Citation info

Goodreau SM, Pollock ED, Birnbaum JK, Hamilton DT, Morris M, on behalf of the Statnet Development Team. 2020. Can’t I please just visit one friend?: Visualizing social distancing networks in the era of COVID-19. http://statnet.org/COVID-JustOneFriend/